Meet new people… and have sex?
I’m getting a pedicure in preparation for our 1st meeting with a new couple tomorrow night and thinking about it all. Mr. Kinky and I have had various threesomes in the past and fooled around with a few couples. We knew all these people to some extent before playing with them. However, this is our first time meeting a couple from a lifestyle website. I’ve heard some horror stories about first time meetings and it can leave one with a bit of sting. So of course, I’m hoping all goes well the first time around. This should be pretty simple, though, since we’re thinking it’s going to be to be a ‘no play’ meeting. Although, if I could get a girly smooch or two before the end of the night, I’d be happy a camper!
We feel that we’re kind of hosting the night and taking the lead, so we should be able to keep things moving along. We’ve decided to meet for cocktails at a nice Italian bar/restaurant. The bar is real cozy and on a Saturday night should offer a good atmosphere for us, something that’s not too quiet, yet not too loud and crazy. We’re thinking of taking our deck of “I’ve Never” cards. They’ve always been a fun way to get to know people and get the group talking and telling stories, whether it’s a naughty gathering or not.
I really am excited, we’ve not played with a couple in a while. In fact, we don’t have many couple friends, even of the vanilla sort. So I’m looking forward to making new friends, especially of the naughty variety. But even with my positive outlook and excitement, I guess I still have a concern and I bet it’s not what you’d think.
My concern is…
I hope I don’t say something stupid. Silly I know. I’m a grown woman and in my career I have no problem mingling with CEO’s of fortune 500 companies and large groups of people. I can even chat it up like quite the porn star during sex, but when I’m meeting people in my personal life, I tend to get a bit nervous. I have faith though because I’m not in this alone. My partner and teammate, Mr. Kinky, can be quite chatty and we do very well together in group conversation. Plus we have fun no matter what we’re doing, so I’m sure I will be fine and the “I’ve Never” Cards are a great tool to have.
In searching myself, I thought I’d be most nervous about whether or not this new couple finds me attractive. I know Mr. Kinky is a stud so I’ve never been concerned about people not finding him attractive. But the surprising thing is, I really don’t care if they don’t find me attractive. The whole point of this meeting is to see if there’s some common ground and chemistry between us all and that’s not something that can or should be forced.
So if they don’t find me, or Mr. Kinky or even us as a couple attractive and the chemistry isn’t there, then it’s not meant to be. Sure I’m getting all dolled up with a pedicure. I want to be all clean and tidy and plus getting a pedicure is so relaxing. I mean come on, who could resist pretty pink toes? I know I can’t.
This is also something I’m not doing alone. Mr. Kinky and I are doing this together and we make a great team. I’m at a point in my life where I’m more confident in myself physically and mentally and all these things are important. Plus, we’re only meeting for drinks, so if things aren’t going well, we can easily excuse ourselves and get the hell out of there. So the bottom line is, meeting this couple for some possible naughty fun, is an addition to an already satisfying sex life and relationship. If the chemistry isn’t there, it’s not the end of the world. And when it comes down to it, I also understand that while I fear saying something silly or stupid, I don’t normally and it’s important for me to be myself, a great version of myself, but be myself none the less. If they like us, great, if they don’t there’s plenty more couples that we have to voice verify with and meet. So no harm, no foul. Well, my toes are done and I’m comfortable with my thoughts. I’ll be sure to update on our progress.
Stay naughty!
No related posts.
Read more:couples, Foursome, meeting Categorized as Inner Swing